234StarHelpline: My Wife Is Cheating On Me With A Female!

Hello 234star! Thanks for the avenue you’ve made for people to share their problems. I have a problem – I’ll need help from you or your readers to know how to go about the situation I’m in at the moment. 

I found out two days ago, that my wife of 4 years is homosexual and she has been having a sexual affair with our housemaid. OUR HOUSEMAID!! I should have noticed it when she was so keen on bringing the girl. I should have noticed from how familiar they were with each other! Since I found out, I’ve not slept in the house, I’ve been lodging in a hotel!

The worst thing is she hasn’t called since it happened which means she is not remorseful. I don’t want to lose my wife but I can’t accept her as a homosexual. I just can’t!

I’m totally confused right now and need a solid opinion on what to do!