His website, The African Bachelor http://musingsofanafricanbachelor.com/churns blogs that reach readers from across Continents and have been shared by hundreds on Facebook and other social media platforms.
Kwadjo’s Bachelor’s Pad in Los Angeles
His bio page reads: “I have had the unfortunate pleasure of dating in my teens, 20’s, 30’s and now, my 40’s! I have been married and divorced. Sometimes I can’t decide if my life as a bachelor is something to laugh about or an experience to cry about.”
Relationships don’t come with a manual as we all know. Good and authentic relationship advice therefore is of great value. It must be a relief to the ladies knowing that there is male blogger out there offering an unfiltered peek into the male mind.
Kwadjo is an intriguing blogger with an impressive writing style. His authenticity and ability to open to critique is commendable. He does not claim to be a relationship expert, rather he chooses to use his experiences as cautionary tales to others. He has an inquisitive streak and loves making observations about the dating dilemmas faced by most Africans living abroad and in the motherland. He does not shy away from topics that most consider as controversial. No topic is off limits. Writing about the uncomfortable truths in relationships is his forte and he puts both men and women through the under the microscope, himself included.
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Currently based in Los Angeles, California, Kwadjo relocated to the United States over 20 years ago to pursue his education which led to the start of a career as a business professional with close to two decades and counting, of working experience in corporate America. Writing, blogging, world travel and photography are his favorite hobbies.
On the Traffic Avenue show with Philip Ashon; August 2016
Kwadjo started blogging in May of 2016. Seven months into his blogging journey, he has a very fast growing fan base with approximately 21,000 followers on Facebook, an impressive feat considering the length of time he’s been on the entertainment scene. He made appearances on the traffic avenue show on citifm and as a guest panelist on the Peace Hyde show during his recent visit to Ghana. His blogs have been featured, shared and cited by Ghanaweb, citifmonline, ghlinks, Nairaland forum, venturesAfrica, just to name a few.
Lydia Forson featured his piece on ‘2 Reasons why men cheat: From a man’s perspective’ as a reference to a blog she wrote about cheating. His blog happens to be one of the favorites of Jessica Opare Saforo as posted on her Facebook fan page.
Kwadjo and Jessica in Los Angeles; November 2016
Curious about the inspiration behind his writing? Kwadjo says: “God is my ultimate inspiration in all things. When it comes to relationships, I’ve had countless dating experiences. I’ve experienced marriage and the difficulties which come with a divorce. I’ve been in a number of committed relationships, had friends with benefits situations, been on numerous first dates with women who turned out to be mismatches. I’ve had blissful times, incredibly sad times and lonely beyond belief times.”
He continues: “Earlier on in my dating journey, I was inclined to see my relationship experiences as just wrong turns, failures and wasted opportunities. I wished then that I had never met some women, or that I had not lingered too long around those I knew were not right for me. Similarly, there are those I wish I could have treated better or stayed longer with; those I regret parting company with. In the early chapter of my dating journey, I failed to realize my experiences were lessons to be learnt.”
As the years have passed, I have devoted more energy into reflection and self-improvement. I now appreciate the importance of both good and bad past relationships and dating experiences. I now place value on sharing such experiences. My satisfaction comes from knowing that I may make a good impact on readers who through reading about my experiences, will be able to avoid pitfalls that I had the misfortune of diving into and hopefully utilize lessons that I had to learn the hard way.”
In conclusion Kwadjo says: “I am still a work in progress and I owe a debt of gratitude to the people who have made it possible for me to share my stories. To my friend Maame Dadson, who suggested and encouraged me to start a blog and to Rosemary Abban who helps to enhance my work with her editing skills and suggestions. I am also grateful to all the women who have drifted in and out of my life for helping me to evolve to be a better person.
“To my fans and readers thank you for your support and feedback!”
You can find the link to Kwadjo Panyin’s blog below.
http://musingsofanafricanbachelor.com