Thirty-five years old media personality, Shade Ladipo, who had her court marriage today, has shared a post on Instagram advising ladies to find themselves first before thinking about marriage.
She wrote:
G O A L S
I’ve always been a lists person so every 3-5years since I turned 18, I have always had a Goals listsOver the years it has included various things but one thing I always wrote was that I wanted to be married at 35
I don’t know why I chose that age but as I got closer I asked myself if I should change it
So when I turned 30, I changed it and wrote
I want to be Happy at 35
Well I’m Happy, I’m Married and you can finish the rest
My advice for people trying to find ‘The One’
S T O P
You are ‘The One’
Find yourself
Find your happiness
Find your peace
Everything comes when you’re centered
#FocusOnYourFocus
#ShadeLadipo
See her post below: