Olushola Akapo, a makeup artist and master of her craft, was living her dreams until a shocking breast cancer diagnosis knocked at her door.
Despite the hardship, Olushola’s story is one of strength, resilience, and the unwavering support of her loved ones. In this candid conversation, she shares her journey from discovery to recovery, providing hope to others facing similar battles.
This interview has been edited for length and clarity
Can you take us back to when you first discovered the lump? How did you react?
It was during my monthly self-exam. I felt this tiny lump near my left armpit, which hadn’t been there before. I immediately jumped out of bed and rechecked in the bathroom with soap. I was concerned but not overly scared.
I thought, “Not all lumps mean cancer. However, after a few weeks and no changes, I took action, eventually leading to a lumpectomy and a biopsy. When the results confirmed stage 3 cancer, I didn’t cry. I felt a strange calmness, knowing that breaking down wouldn’t change the diagnosis.
How did your family handle the news?
I was living with my older sister at the time. When I handed her the report, she was in shock, panicking and running to the bathroom. I was in denial myself, saying, “This isn’t my diagnosis.” But after a second and third opinion confirmed it, I accepted it and focused on treatment.
You seemed to handle the diagnosis with strength. Did you ever feel overwhelmed or experience a mental breakdown?
Yes, there were overwhelming moments, but I never broke down completely. The support from family, friends, and even strangers on social media kept me going. I shared my journey openly, updating people who helped fund my treatment. I also reminded myself of God’s promises and the gift of good people around me. This positivity became my armor.
How did you manage work during your treatment?
After surgery, I went back to my studio, taking jobs that my strength could handle. Chemotherapy took a toll, especially with hair loss and fatigue, but I pushed through. Some clients even asked if they could “catch” cancer from me. I didn’t let it upset me; I educated them instead. My business did slow down, but I knew I’d return to it once I won this fight.
What advice would you give to someone with a later-stage diagnosis?
Just hug them, pray with them, and offer your presence. Words often fall short. Cancer, even in later stages, is a battle of the mind. I’d tell them to stay positive, as I did. I’ve met stage 4 survivors thriving today, so hope is real. Positivity and faith are powerful forces.
You mentioned challenges with life after active treatment. How has that adjustment been?
Life after cancer isn’t what I expected. Physically, I have limitations, my right arm still needs physiotherapy. But my spirit is resilient. I’m intentional about my happiness and surround myself with people who bring peace. I even dance to lift my mood. It’s not easy, but I stay grateful for every day I’m given.
Olushola Akapo’s journey shows that even the hardest battles can be met with grace and strength. Her unwavering faith, family support, and positivity helped her through an experience that changed her life forever. Her message is clear: Cancer may alter your path, but with courage, you can still choose how to walk it.
