234Star Helpline: I Caught My Boyfriend Having Sex With His “Sister”

Hello 234Star,

I caught my boyfriend having sex with his sister, I couldn’t believe my eyes but it suddenly dawned on me that he fooled me all this while, I was suspecting that something was wrong but I just had to force my self to trust him and I feel so stupid for letting him deceive me.

My boyfriend and I started dating earlier this year, in February, he had told me that he relocated from Port Harcourt to Lagos last year to hustle and his family members are still staying there.

Everything was fine with us but I realized that most night I spend with him, he spends a long time on the phone talking to someone, when I got to know it was a girl, he told me it was his sister, his immediate younger sister whom he is so close to and showed me pictures of her, I believed him and didn’t have any problem with him checking up on her.

A few months ago, my boyfriend asked me to borrow him some money to add to the one he has because he wanted to start a new business as the one he was doing wasn’t moving well anymore and he had invested a lot but lost everything. I agreed and gave him 200k, I still used my money to cook for him whenever I came to visit him, all I did was out of the love I had for him.

Earlier this month, he told me that his sister was coming from Port Harcourt to visit him and I had no problem with that, I wanted to get to know her too, she showed up last week and he introduced us when I came to visit them, they seemed like siblings to me, I didn’t suspect anything, he asked her of his parents and other siblings and she answered, gisting him of things that are happening in their house and also telling me things too, she was so nice and respectful, they acted very well and I really believed and fell for their drama.

Some days ago, I came to visit them with foodstuffs to cook and when I opened the door, I saw them having sex and I was shocked, I couldn’t believe my eyes and when they realized I was there they were surprised to see me, I turned to leave and my boyfriend was speechless, the only thing he could say is that he can explain, but he actually couldn’t explain.

I am heartbroken and still in shock with what I saw, he called me once after the incident, I didn’t pick up, he didn’t call me back since then, I don’t know what to do, I really loved him and still do but I can’t wrap my head around this one.